Bad things happen to Good people
That forever life question, “Why do bad things always happen to good people?”
Because they can handle it. Simple as that. Good people are meant for break downs. Genuinely good people are built for volcanic explosions. I repeat, genuinely good people can HANDLE IT.
Is what I am telling myself as I am making the ends of my hair look wavy this morning. But then it’s like, why am I self advising myself this morning? Is something about to just go ape shit and explode in life? I doubt it. I would stress myself thinking that.
I think it’s because I finally understand everything is at peace. Things are okay. The best they can be. The best they have been in what feels like eternity. Broken down into years. Still trying to pin point the exact moment. But whatever. Now I’m rambling.
‘You disappear so completely into your head sometimes,’ he said. ‘I wish I could follow you.’
I feel like in this adventure of life, we spend a lot of it searching for girl friends. Our worst yet best enemy. We can’t find real good girl friends til we soul search inside ourself. As girls we tear each other down because we are jealous of what one another has. And it becomes this vicious cycle. And you go through friends who you think are your best gal friends and nothing can stop you. And you guys will take over the world. And no. That ends. It halts. And your questioning the entire years of the friendship. Breaking up with a friends is 10 X worse then a relationship. Guy or girl friends. It just sucks.
Friendship is never counted by the number of years. It’s who is ACTUALLY there for you. Even when you’re wrong.
And then somewhere, you learn to respect yourself and you find girls with the same goals and ambitions. Maybe not career path. But we all see the world the same. And at the end of the day, are in the circle of this life for the same reason. And those people love you not matter what. They see all your down falls but never judge you. Ever. Don’t ever judge. That’s where you go wrong. Unless it’s you and yours best gal pals sitting amongst each other judging that girl who just walked by with the latest hand bag. And how to steal it. Because it’s so Adorbs. Then judge.
But when you find your best girl friends it changes your life. In a good way. You have people you can relate to. That you can depend on. And even if you don’t see each other for months or talk everyday, when you do see each other it’s like nothing changed. Girl friends you can watch movies together, get dressed up and feel like superstars, dance around to your favorite songs, talk about boys, and all other life issues.
And in my journey of finding girl friends. I found some of the best. Listed below.
It’s refreshing for once to have real girlfriends and at 24, I figured that out.